If you could fall in love with Spirit/The Divine: how could it happen? how would it feel? what would result? whom would you trust and ask to assist and/or to guide? where could this happen? when would you be ready? what is holding you back? The Oasis Divinium invites you to explore these questions on your path to experiencing devine ecstatic communion.
The Starting Point
We believe in a radically positive, world-embracing vision of the whole of reality as an expression of a joyous Divine Consciousness. We continually share and explore practices and rituals that aim to bring about an inner realization of this truth, bringing freedom from ignorance, while invoking rebirth and healing in the process. We are exploring all of the ways that the intersection of our spirituality, mindfullness, emotions, and our sexuality can be employed as a way of entering into the underlying processes and structure of the universe.
Towards A Deeper Understanding of Self
Creating the Optimal Setting
The Oasis Divinium is a setting for us to constantly evolve and grow together--in positive light and safe space with good intention and right relations. The space is open to all people, regardless of gender identity or sexual orientation who are interested in exploring their all aspects of their "self" -- intellectual, emotional, sexual, spiritual, and body temple -- in a sacred context.
Creating the Optimal Love
To lose the self in love, look always to the beginning and keep to the beginning.
Worship each other's pure essence as manifestations of the Spirit of the Universe.
Use all senses to read your beloved's mind/body/emotions/sexuality/spirit.
In slow motion abandonment of time itself, give only pleasure and love, letting theirs become yours, ours.
Surrender continuously, unconditionally, to the sacred fire within, all consuming, all purifying, all fulfilling.
Sacred Sexuality, Sexual Spirituality
Many people today are beginning to re-learn the sacred approach to lovemaking, as in tantra, indigenous tribal customs, mystical rituals, Sufi and tantric couples practices, and post-sexual-revolution "high monogamy" and polyamory. Cultures much older than ours have evolved ways for seekers to include their physical bodies within the context of spiritual practice and the enlightened life. Meditation, invocations, breathing exercises, incense, candlelight, ceremonial objects, rituals, and music have been used to create a special environment and mind-state in which to sanctify love and the myriad ways it can manifest. Such careful preparations tend to quiet the neurotic mind and increase sensitivity and sensuality, while at the same time engendering the proper reverence.
The essence of this conscious approach is to transform the very energy of your appetite for personal pleasure into one of cosmic realization, by harnessing your own desire to the happiness, the thrill, and the total fulfillment of your partner(s). Thus you achieve Unity through duality, by making her (or his) ecstasy your own. Giving and taking merge, and you two become One. The transformation from ordinary mechanical, confused, guilt-ridden relationahips to the profound gift of natural/spiritual lovemaking depends upon a broadening of one's focus from the genitals to the heart, from passion to compassion, from the "take it for granted daily grind" to the embrace of the Eternal Now.
Spiritualized love and love making opens you at all centers at once, animal to divine. Transcendent love is a spiritual experience. Every touch is The First, and time stands still. The senses are magnified a thousand times. Your partner becomes a Goddess or God, whom you worship in awe. You notice everything, and it all conveys tremendous meaning and potency. Foreplay is truly playful, breathtakingly tender. The pleasure is immediately and continuously perfect, the passion intense and profound. Time itself disappears and the beauty of the Universe becomes self-evident. Opening all your centers, engaging all your faculties, the animal/emotional/spiritual crescendo of love lasts forever, and the climax is an exquisite release of the body, the heart and the soul in a spectacular shared revelation of the Universal Self. The after-glow of such a cosmic physical union often endures for days or weeks. The experience is healing and unifying in every way.